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How to Give a Man a Handjob

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by JStove

Article by Kath Blackwell

“Any woman who can give a man a good handjob is worth her weight in gold.” – or so an ex-boyfriend once told me one night when he was trying to talk me into giving him one. Late night campaign speeches in the dark aside, giving a good handjob is a great way to show him that you care enough to learn how to do it – and do it right.

The first thing you have to know is – your man. What does he like? What turns him on? Believe it or not the best way to find out is to ask him to show you what he likes. Now, this could be a turn on for you both, having him masturbate in front of you – but pay attention, watch and learn – don’t get distracted by the display. Does he like it rough and wild – or steady and gentle? Ask questions if you aren’t sure so you’ll know what works for him and what doesn’t.

How much do you know about male genitalia? Understanding his anatomy – knowing what to be gentle with and what he might like played with a little more roughly – will definitely help. As you touch him, you’ll want to gauge your pressure and speed – don’t stroke him too hard unless you see that’s what he wants. He will give you signs – is he making noises, moving his body or saying anything? Men are great with feedback – in fact, sometimes they feel compelled to talk to us too much – but in this case it will be helpful. Ask him if he likes it? If the pressure and speed are right? He’ll let you know.

Here’s a big tip that will help you out – something I didn’t learn myself until much later in life. If you’re going to do a good handjob, don’t rely on your saliva alone – get some lube. He might be turned on by the fact that you went out and purchased some just for him – try scented versions, flavored (if things are going to move beyond handiwork into oral explorations) and maybe even other “heated” versions later, once you get your skills down. There are lots of options and you can even buy them at Target or WalMart – so no worries, you won’t have to trek down to the sleezy adult store and worry about someone seeing you.

Another thing to remember is that a handjob isn’t just about the penis – there are other things you need to pay attention to if you want to do it right. The testicles and scrotum are very sensitive and you can increase your man’s arousal if you caress them, touch them and tickle them properly and at the right time during your handjob. Other areas, such as the perineum, are extremely sensitive once things get going.

Keeping the pace is essential to a good – well, outcome – if you’ll pardon the pun. Start slow, touch and tease, build up to a steady stimulation and then intensify to the point of orgasm. If you stop too much in the middle, or start off too fast and rough – it probably won’t work. Another big mistake is trying to use light and sensitive stimulation after you’ve already been stroking him hard for a long time – he will lose sensitivity and probably not feel it. Start slow, build up and then hang on – keep it going until he has an orgasm, otherwise all you’ll be doing is creating a horny, frustrated guy – and not in a good way.

Another great thing to remember is that this isn’t about some random handjob – this is a sexy, sensual experience between you and your man. You need to make and hold eye contact with him – men are very visual – and you need to hold that connection with him if you truly want to increase the quality of the experience. Feel like making noises? Getting turned on? Let go and enjoy.

About the Author

Kath Blackwell has over a dozen years of experience working as a writer, developer and consultant in various areas of the adult online industry and is currently working as a marketing consultant for http://www.amateurshowroom.com, the first adult amateur community that showcases member-submitted photos and videos.

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