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How To Save Your Marriage After Cheating

Article by T.W. Jackson

The mystery of how to save your marriage after cheating has been around since modern man decided monogamy was the way to go for marriage. There was a time in history when men had many wives in order to ensure survival of the species. Now that this is no longer a major concern around the world, it makes sense that more marriages are turning towards monogamy but that doesn’t change the genetic predisposition many men feel to spread their seed far and wide. It’s going to take another century or two to squash that particular urge in the minds of men.

That doesn’t mean though that you are being given a blanket pardon for cheating on your wife. In fact, it’s time to move from the Dark Ages into the modern realm and accept the fact that you are ultimately in control of your actions and that you must take responsibility for them as well. Even if you are simply going with your natural instincts you do have the power to stop things from happening that you know shouldn’t happen.

But here’s what you need to do to save your marriage after cheating.

1) Apologize for cheating. Not for getting caught and not just for hurting your wife. You also need to apologize for betraying the trust she placed in you and the vows you made to forsake all others on your wedding day. It’s important to acknowledge your actions and the implications they have for your marriage. Apologizing is the best way to do just that.2) Make amends with your wife. This is not the same thing as offering an apology even though many people confuse the two. Making amends is taking actions to sort of “atone” for the deed that has caused the woman you love above all others so much pain. You’re trying to make it up to her when you make amends rather than simply seeking absolution.3) Offer forgiveness to your wife and yourself. Whether either of you realize it or not, you’re holding on to some anger of your own that is hampering progress for your marriage. If you really want to know how to save your marriage after cheating, this is one of the most important steps in the process.

There are other ways how to save your marriage after cheating but these three things are absolutely necessary to make that happen. Try them today and see what a difference they make for your marriage.

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Don’t just sit back and wait for your efforts to get your ex back to pay off. Make things happen by taking consistent action to win her heart all over again.

Watch this free video: http://www.magicofmakingup.com to find out what your first move MUST be if you really want to make this work today and ensure that your efforts today pay off in the future.

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